- [[failure]] Don't be afraid of what you might do, etc.
- Can the person saying it defend it?
- The flip side of the pattern where the person saying “I should” is not doing it.
- Patterns in which the person who says, “Don’t do it,” is doing it.
- fear and other emotions are observed after they occur.
- Is it possible to avoid having the emotion before it occurs?
- I think it’s impossible.
- What’s possible.
- Be aware that you have feelings.
- Be aware that you are acting irrationally due to these feelings.
- Be aware that you are losing money by this action.
- Be aware of the following if you want to stop this trend:
- That flow happens inside the individual.
- So, others can’t solve it for you.
When I started writing this, Seek causes for phenomena over which you have no control came to mind, but I didn’t see the connection at first. I see the connection in terms of “do you see it as your problem that you have to solve yourself?”
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